I-heroine yale ndaba kungenzeka ukuthi ivume ukuthi ukugcinwa kwe-hyper kulimaza isiguli esinesifo sikashukela. Kwakufanele alawule umyeni wakhe, owenqaba ngokuphelele ukuvuma ukuthi uyagula. Lokhu kwenzeka ngokushesha ngemuva kokukhulelwa kokuqala kokuqala esiphundweni.
Sibuyele esihlokweni sempilo yokuzala. Cishe uyifundile le ndaba kamama wakusasa onesifo sikashukela, futhi hhayi kudala kakhulu lapho abahleli bakhuluma nentombazane elindele nengane. Uyaphila, kepha wazi okuningi mayelana nokuthi angasinxephezela kanjani isifo sikashukela. Iqiniso ukuthi umyeni wakhe unale nkinga (ngokucelwa yi-heroine, asimniki igama, futhi sishintshe negama lowashade naye).
Ekuqaleni kuka-2017, lapho umyeni wami ecishe athole isifo sikashukela ngengozi ngengozi, umama wamemeza: "Hlukana! Kungani udinga lo mthwalo!". Umkhwekazi, obekade engajabuli kakhulu ngomshado "womfana wakhe," wakhala: "Musa ukumshiya uSerezhenkuuu ...". Babenovalo, futhi umyeni wami, ephila iminyaka engama-42 ngesisekelo sokuthi "zonke izinkinga zixazululwa kalula," wayezolile njengendlovu.
“Ngizodla okumnandi kancane,” kusho yena enikina ikhanda. USergey wabheka ukugula kwakhe njengebhokisi lokugcina elincanyana, ayekade ahlangana nalo ohambweni lwempilo yakhe. Wayesezomgxumela aqhubeke. Odokotela bamuxwayisa: uma isifo sikashukela singelashwa, kungaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu. Ngonyaka wokuqala umyeni wami walawula ushukela futhi wathatha yonke imishanguzo ebekiwe. Kwathi lapho efunde izeluleko zochungechunge oluthi “Energy of Positive Thoughts”, waqala wabangenisa ekusebenzeni, engacabangi nakancane ukuthi bebengasebenzi kuye. "Kufanele uphinde kuwe ukuthi akukho okukulimazayo, bese kungalimali. Lapha akukho buhlungu kimi. Abantu abakhubazekile baqala ukuhamba ngoba bakholelwa empumelelweni. Abantu abayizimpumputhe sebeqala ukubona. Abasebenzisi bezitulo ezinamasondo banemindeni futhi bazala izingane," wabonisana.
Ngemuva kokulalela lezi zinkulumo, ngaphumula (ekugcineni, umyeni wami usekhulile, iminyaka eyi-10 kunami) kwathi ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa ngathola iphakethe elingavaliwe lemivimbo. "Kungani ungalingani ushukela?" Ngibuze umyeni wami. Ulandela izindebe zakhe ngokuthuka (wayethukuthele noma ngabe yikuphi okushiwo yilesi sifo) wathi akukho okubi akwenzile.
Ngaleso sikhathi, angizange ngicabange nokuthi lingaba nzima kangakanani ikusasa, ikakhulukazi uma ngiqala lesi sifo. Futhi namuhla, nsuku zonke ngiza nemenyu yababili: Ngibambe ngekhanda ithebula lemikhiqizo nge-GI. USergey angaba ne-zucchini, isitshalo seqanda, amakhowe, amaqanda nenkukhu. Uhlu lokudla olunqatshelwe ngokuqinile lubandakanya ushukela, ufulawa, i-pasta. Kumyeni wami, ongavuka ebusuku aye ekhishini ukuthola ucezwana, lokhu kubulawa kuyefana, kodwa akukho lapho engaya khona ...
Izimpawu ku-mellitus yesifo sikashukela azixakile. Umyeni wayehlala efuna ukuphuza, futhi lokhu kungenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu. Ukushisa kwakhe kwakhuphuka ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi wayekhathele. Sithe lokhu kusebenza ngokweqile.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke wayethanda ukulala kusihlwa phambi kweTV enebhodlela likabhiya. Ngake ngamtshela ukuthi umngani wami uzoza kithi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa, lapho uSergei asonga khona amehlo akhe ethi: "Futhi bangani? Ungakanani?". Wayethanda ukuthanda ukuxhumana, kepha manje uyazonda izivakashi.
Kwakunenye futhi inkinga esondelene nayo. Ukushaywa kocansi kukaSergei kunciphile ngokubonakalayo. Ngokunyuka, wayengangifuni, noma efuna, kepha "wayevilapha," futhi "ngidinga ucansi kuphela kuye." Ngesinye isikhathi, ngamkhumbuza ngokucophelela ngesifo sikashukela futhi ngaphakamisa ukuthi aye kudokotela, ngokwesibonelo, udokotela we-endocrinologist.
USergey uxoshwe ngobuvila. Njengokuthi, odokotela bebengalunganga ngenkathi bemthola ngalokhu. Njengokungathi akuphathelene nesifo sikashukela, kodwa mayelana nekhala eligundayo. Futhi ngangimthanda ngokweqiniso futhi ngangicabanga ukuthi konke okwenzekayo kwakuwumugqa omnyama nje, noma isikhathi esibi esijwayelekile, ngemuva kwalokho konke bekuzoba ngcono. Umyeni wayeya ngokuya emikhawulweni ecashile yokudangala, ngaso sonke isikhathi edabukisa.
Ngokushesha saqala ukuxoxa ngokuzalwa kwamazibulo (ngokwazi ukuthi le ngxoxo kungenzeka nomuntu elele phambi kwe-TV). Le ngane ibizoba ngowokuqala kithi sobabili, futhi ngangikholelwa ukuthi ukuzalwa kwayo kuzowusindisa umshado wethu obolile.
USergey wabekezelela. Ukuhlaselwa kokudangala nosizi kuphindelela kuye kuye kaningi. Wayekhuluphele kakhulu, futhi uma ekuqaleni kuka-2017 esinda ama-80 kg kuphela, bese kuthi-ke manje ngonyaka ka-2018 kube sekuyi-102. Akazange avuke ubusuku obumnandi, imvamisa ibhokisi lamashokhethi lalibeka etafuleni eliseceleni kombhede. Uthe wonke amadoda anelungelo lokuba nesisu.
Ngabe sengikhulelwa. Ukukhulelwa kwamukelekile, kodwa lapho nje ngibona imivimbo emibili kuhlolo, ngabanjwa ngethuswa ukuthi ingane ingasithola njengefa isifo ubaba wakhe azame kanzima ukusibona.
Ngiphuthume e-reception e-LCD. Odokotela abashongo lutho olubucayi. Omunye ubenesiqiniseko sokuthi isifo sikashukela asikwazi ukutholwa njengefa kubaba, othile welulekwa ukuthi aqale ukubheka impilo yengane kusukela azalwa.
Ngenyanga yesithathu ngaphuphuma isisu. Ngibuyile ku-gynecologist, futhi esikhundleni sokwesekwa ngezwa kumyeni wami isho ukuthi "ungakhathazeki, sizoba nengane", ngemuva kwalawa mazwi waphinde wabuka iTV ... Ngaleso sikhathi izinhlungu zami zadlula ngokuphelele. Ngakhala ubusuku bonke, kwathi ekuseni ngokuqinile ngathi: "Uma ngikukhathalela, ake uye kudokotela."
Ngabe senginquma ukuthi zonke izinkinga zivela kwisifo sikashukela, uSergei ayengafuni ukuziqaphela. Ngokudinwa okukhulu nokungabaza okukhulu, wavuma ukuya e-reception. "Lesi sifo singaba imbangela yezinkinga zakho," kusho udokotela.
Ushukela kaSergey wawuphezulu kakhulu. Kwavela ukuthi waqala lesi sifo ngokuhlelekile, esidinga ukwelashwa ngokushesha, ngokuphuthumayo! Umama wami uthole ngalokhu: "Thola isehlukaniso uma ufuna impilo ejwayelekile! Ngakuxwayisa - awulalelanga!". Umyeni wami waye kwenqatshelwe ngokuqinile ukudla ufulawa, amaswidi nakho konke okwenza ukuthi izinga likashukela likhuphuke. Kwakufanele ngihlanganise ukudla nodokotela futhi ngiqaphe indlela esidla ngayo kanye noshukela “wethu”.
Kwakunomuzwa wokuthi ngithatha uSergei ngebheyili. Kwabonakala sengathi ngaphenduka umama omubi, kepha ngasikhathi sinye, mina nomyeni wami sasondelana. Mhlawumbe ngoba badlale eqenjini elifanayo enkundleni ye- "Diabetes".
Futhi kusihlwa, lapho umyeni wami elele, ngifunde i-Intanethi ngesihloko esithi "ungakhulelwa kanjani uma indoda inesifo sikashukela." Imininingwane ehluke ngokuphelele kulwandle. "Ngikhulelwe ngemuva kwe-4 IVF, umyeni wami unesifo sikashukela." Noma: "Amadoda anesifo sikashukela ayinyumba!". Omunye wethuke izingane ezigulayo, othile, onjengomama wami, wangiqinisekisa ukuthi akukho impilo nomuntu ogulayo. Wabe eseshintsha izinkundla zokuxhumana waya ezingosini zezokwelapha futhi bathola ukuthi lawo madoda angaba nezinkinga ngokuqhekeka kwesidoda kwe-DNA. Kulokhu, ingozi yokuboshwa kwe-umbungu ekukhuleni iphezulu, noma ukukhulelwa kungaqedwa ngokuzenzakalelayo, njengoba kwenzeka kithina.
Ukukhulelwa okuqhamuka endodeni kungenzeka kube lula, kepha bekungelula ukukusho. Ezikhundleni eziyishumi zokukhulelwa okunjalo, ezi-5 (!) Ziphela ekuphuthweni kwesisu, ezimweni ezisezingeni eliphakeme - 8. Kuthiwani uma sesivele saphenduka icala elinganakwa?!
Ngenkathi ngiselapha uSergei, ngibhekisisa impilo yami ngiphupha ngiseyingane, ngaba nokuqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ukuthi singeke sikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kosizo lwemithi yokuzala. Kwakunolwazi oluningi ku-Intanethi, kepha kwakungekho kukhonkolo lapho bebengaphendula khona umbuzo oyinhloko - ingabe le ngane engakazalwa iyosithola lesi sifo?
Isazi sokuzala kabusha seCenter for IVF sithe anginazo izinkinga ezithile ngokuqala kokukhulelwa, kepha umyeni wami kufanelekile ukuthi ahlolwe. Usiqondise ekubonisaneni nodokotela oyi-urologist.
"Kuyadingeka ukwenza i-IVF + PIXI lapho i-spermatozoa ifakwa ekukhetheni okungeziwe. Kwenziwa ngesisekelo sezimpawu zomzimba weseli lokuzala labesilisa. Isipermatozoa esivuthiwe kakhulu esiphethe iDNA futhi sinezinzuzo eziningi sikhethiwe," kuchazwa udokotela Maxim Kolyazin.
Amathuba okuqhekeka kwe-DNA ku-spermatozoa ekhethwe yi-embryologist yenqubo ye-ICSI / PIXI aphansi kunangesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwe-IVF (noma ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwemvelo). Kalula nje, ngale nqubo, amathuba okukhetha "zinger" ezisebenziseka kakhulu makhulu kakhulu. Uhlu lwezinkomba: Amacala anamandla okuzala kwabesilisa, izimiso ezingekho emthethweni ze-IVF kanye nezisu ezingekho emthethweni.
Sibe yisiwula kangakanani lapho singazange sinake ushukela ... Manje sekuphenduke usizi lwethu olukhulu kakhulu. Ngenhlanhla, azikho izici zokukhulelwa okuvela kumuntu onesifo sikashukela, odokotela banquma ukuthi baziphathe ngokungathi ukukhulelwa okujwayelekile. Ukunaka umzimba wakho ikakhulukazi ukulalela ezinyangeni zokuqala.
Bengingafuni ukuthatha izingozi. Sithole umthetho olandelwayo we-IVF + PIXI ngoSepthemba 2018. Bengikhathazeke kakhulu. Wonke umuntu uyathuthumela futhi umkhuhlane ojwayelekile ubonakala kimi njengezinkinga ezinkulu zempilo ezazisongela ukukhulelwa. Sixhumana nesazi sokuzala futhi u-Alena Druzhinina ngaso sonke isikhathi, uyangiqinisekisa futhi uyangikhuthaza.
"Kukhona isakhi sofuzo esenzelwe isifo sikashukela. Ngakho-ke, ingane yakho kufanele iqale ukuvimbela ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Isisu sami sesivele sabonakala kakhulu. Ngikhula ngesisindo somzimba, futhi owakwami uyakwehlisa. Umyeni waphinda futhi wanaka futhi wanakekela. Sizoba nentombazane! Sesivele simkhethile igama lakhe. Ukukhulelwa kuhamba kahle. Emtholampilo wabakhulelwe, bangibiza ngesinye seziguli eziyisibonelo. Njengoba engishade naye edla, nami ngiyakulandela. Ngicabanga ukuthi sinokudla okunempilo kakhulu kokusemandleni akho.
