NgoSepthemba 14, iphrimiyeli yephrojekthi eyingqayizivele yenzeka ku-YouTube - iqiniso lokuqala libonisa ukuthi kwahlanganisa abantu abanesifo sikashukela sohlobo 1. Inhloso yakhe ukwephula izingqinamba ngalesi sifo futhi asho nokuthi kungashintsha kanjani ikhwalithi yempilo yomuntu onesifo sikashukela ukuba ngcono. Emavikini ambalwa, ochwepheshe basebenze nababambiqhaza - i-endocrinologist, umqeqeshi wokuzilolonga, futhi, udokotela wezengqondo. Sibuze uVasily Golubev, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo samaphrojekthi, ilungu eligcwele leProfessional Psychotherapeutic League leRussian Federation kanye nodokotela oqinisekisiwe we-European Association of Psychotherapy, ukuthi asitshele ngephrojekthi yeDiaChallenge futhi anikeze izeluleko eziwusizo kubafundi bethu.
Vasily, sicela usitshele ukuthi ngabe yini umsebenzi wakho ophambili kuphrojekthi yeDiaChallenge?
Umqondo wephrojekthi ukhonjiswa egameni lawo - Inselelo, okuhunyushwa ukuthi isuselwa esiNgisini isuselwa "inselele" Ukuze wenze into eyinkimbinkimbi, “ukwamukela inselelo”, izinsiza ezithile, amandla angaphakathi ayadingeka. Bengidingeka ukusiza abahlanganyeli ekutholeni le mikhosi ngaphakathi kubo noma ukuthola imithombo yabo futhi bafunde ukusebenzisa ngayo.
Umsebenzi wami omkhulu kulolu phrojekthi ukufundisa umuntu ngamunye obambe iqhaza enhlanganweni esezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu nokuzibusa, ngoba yilokhu okusiza iningi lakho lonke ukuthola uhlelo kunoma yiziphi izimo zempilo. Kulokhu, bekufanele ngenze izimo ezihlukile zalowo ngamunye obambe iqhaza ukuze kwandiswe ukusetshenziswa kwezinsiza zabo namandla abo.
Zikhona yini izimo lapho ababambiqhaza bakumangaze, noma lapho kukhona okungahambanga ngendlela obekuhleliwe?
Akumelanga ngimangale kakhulu. Ngenxa yomsebenzi wami, kufanele ngifunde njalo izimo ezahlukahlukene zokuphila kanye nezimpawu zobuntu babantu, bese kancane kancane ngifuna isu lokuxazulula izinkinga zabo.
Iningi labahlanganyeli bephrojekthi lakhombisa ukuphikelela nokulungela ukukhuphuka kaninginingi endleleni eya enjongweni yabo.
Ucabangani, Vasily, yini inzuzo esemqoka abazotholwa yilabo ababambe iqhaza ophikweni lwe-DiaChallenge?
Impela, lesi isipiliyoni salokho okufinyelelwayo nokunqobayo (okuncane nokukhulu, okukodwa kanye nokuqoqekile) esevele kuyingxenye yempilo yabo futhi, ngithemba impela, kuzoba yisisekelo sempumelelo entsha.
Yibuphi ubunzima obukhulu bezengqondo obabhekana nabo abantu abaphila nezifo ezingamahlalakhona, njengesifo sikashukela?
Ngokokulinganisa kwe-WHO, emazweni athuthukile cishe zingama-50% kuphela iziguli ezihlaselwa yizifo ezingamahlalakhona, kubandakanya nesifo sikashukela, zilandela ngokuqinile izincomo zezokwelapha, emazweni asathuthuka nangaphansi. Labo abane-HIV nalabo abanesifo sokuqaqamba kwamalunga balandela imiyalo kadokotela, futhi okubi kakhulu kunabo bonke abantu abanesifo sikashukela nokuphazamiseka kokulala.
Ezigulini eziningi, isidingo sesikhathi eside sokuhambisana nezincomo zezokwelashwa, okungukuthi, ukujeziswa nokuzilungiselela, yilokho "ukuphakama" abangakwazi ukuzenzela kona. Kuyaziwa ukuthi izinyanga eziyisithupha ngemuva kokuthatha isifundo sokulawula ukugula kwakho (ngokwesibonelo, eSikoleni Soshukela - lokhu okubizwa ngokuthi "ukuqeqeshwa okwelapha"), ugqozi lwababambe iqhaza luyancipha, oluthinta ngokushesha imiphumela yokwelashwa.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi kuyadingeka ukugcina izinga elanele lokugqugquzelwa kubantu abanjalo ngempilo. Futhi ohlelweni lokuqeqeshwa okwelapha, iziguli ezinesifo sikashukela akufanele zifunde kuphela ukuthi zingalawulwa kanjani ushukela wazo, zilungise ukudla kwazo futhi zidle nemithi. Kumele bakhe izimo zengqondo ezintsha nezisusa, bashintshe indlela yokuziphatha kanye nemikhuba. Abantu abanezifo ezingamahlalakhona kufanele babe yingxenye ephelele enqubweni yokwelapha kanye ne-endocrinologist, umondli wezempilo, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wamehlo kanye nodokotela nabanye ochwepheshe. Kulesi simo kuphela lapho bezokwazi khona ukuncintisana futhi isikhathi eside (kuyo yonke impilo) bahlanganyele ekuphathweni kwezifo zabo.
Uyacelwa ukuthi uncome ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nokushaqeka kothile obezwa okokuqala ukutholakala kwesifo sikashukela.
Ukutholwa kokuxilongwa kuhlukahluka kakhulu futhi kuncike kuzo zombili izimo zangaphandle nobuntu besiguli. Ukuthola indlela yendawo yonke esebenza ngokulingeneyo kunoma yimuphi umuntu kuzohluleka. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ngakunye kwezindlela zakhe (izindlela) zokubhekana, ukukhuthazela nokunqoba nakanjani kukhona. Into esemqoka ukuthi ufune, ufune usizo futhi uphikelele.
Akuwona wonke umuntu futhi hhayi njalo onethuba lokuxhumana nabelaphi. Yini engayalwa kubantu ezikhathini lapho bezizwa bengenamandla ngaphambi kwesifo nokuphelelwa yithemba?
Ezweni lethu, okokuqala ngqa, ngonyaka we-1975 kuphela, kwavulwa amakamelo okuqala ezengqondo angama-200 (ayi-100 eMoscow, angama-50 eLeningrad, kwathi angama-50 ezweni lonke). Futhi ngonyaka we-1985 kuphela, ukwelashwa kwengqondo kwafakwa okokuqala ohlwini lwezindlela zezokwelapha ezikhethekile. Ngokokuqala ngqa, ama-psychotherapist ejwayelekile avela kuma-polyclinics nasezibhedlela. Futhi umlando wokuhlangenwe namandla, kubandakanya ngaphambi kokugula, ukuphelelwa ithemba kuhambisana nabantu amakhulu amaningi eminyaka. Futhi sibonga ukwesekana nokunakekela ndawonye, usizo olusobabili singanqoba ubuthakathaka bethu kanye nabanye abantu. Xhumana nabanye ukuze uthole ukusekelwa nosizo!
Ungakuthinti kanjani ukugula kwakho futhi unganikezeli impilo ngokugcwele?
Umuntu uyazi (ecabanga noma ecabanga ukuthi uyazi) ukuthi kuyini impilo, futhi uhambelana nesimo sakhe nalo mqondo. Lo mqondo wezempilo ubizwa ngokuthi "isithombe sangaphakathi sempilo." Umuntu uyazikholisa ukuthi lesi yisimo sakhe futhi yisimo sempilo, uzizwa ngaleyo ndlela.
Sonke isifo somuntu sizibonakalisa ngandlela thile: ngesimo sezimpawu, inhloso kanye nokuzilandelanisa, okungukuthi, izinguquko ezithile emzimbeni womuntu, ekuziphatheni kwaso, ekukhulumeni. Kepha noma yisiphi isifo sibuye sibe nokubonakaliswa kwengqondo kwangaphakathi njengokuqonda kwemizwa kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu ogulayo, isimo sakhe ngeqiniso lesifo, kuye uqobo njengesiguli.
Lapho nje isimo somuntu siyeka ukuhambisana nesithombe sakhe sangaphakathi sempilo, umuntu uqala ukuzibona egula. Futhi wabe esevele esakha "isithombe sangaphakathi sesifo." "Isithombe sangaphakathi sempilo" kanye "nesithombe sangaphakathi sesifo", kunjengokungathi izinhlangothi ezimbili zohlamvu lwemali ezifanayo.
Ngokuya ngezinga elihlobene nesi sifo kanye nobunzima baso, izinhlobo ezine "zesithombe sangaphakathi salesi sifo" ziyahlukaniswa:
- ezinegnosic - ukuntuleka kokuqonda, ukuphika ngokuphelele ukugula komuntu;
- I-hyponozognosic - ukuntuleka kokuqonda, ukuqaphela okungaphelele kweqiniso lesifo ngokwakho;
- I-hypernosognosic - ukwanda kobunzima balesi sifo, sithi isifo sisodwa, ukungezwani ngokweqile ngokomzwelo maqondana nalesi sifo;
- pragmatic - ukuhlolwa kwangempela kwesifo sakho, imizwa eyanele ngokuhlobene nayo.
Ukuze uzuze izinga lempilo eliphakeme kakhulu, okungukuthi, limane nje, ukujabulela impilo lapho kunesifo esingelapheki, kubalulekile ukwakha uhlobo “lwesithombe sangaphakathi” salesi sifo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukufunda ukuphatha isimo sakho ngokwengqondo, ushintshe indlela oziphatha ngayo, wenze inkuthazo engapheli, okungukuthi, gxila emizamweni yakho ekuthuthukisweni nasekugcinweni kwezempilo ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Sicela unikeze izeluleko kulabo abanakekela umuntu onesifo sikashukela - ukuthi ungasekela kanjani isithandwa ngezikhathi ezinzima nokuthi ungazishisi kanjani ngokwengqondo ekuxinekeni kwengqondo ngokwakho?
Vele, wonke umuntu ufuna ukuzwa izeluleko ezilula kakhulu nezisebenzayo. Kepha lapho othandekayo wethu futhi sibhekene nesifo sikashukela, izinto eziningi ezimpilweni zethu nakithi zidinga ushintsho olukhulu, ukuthuthukiswa okuhleliwe. Ukuze unakekele umuntu ngokuphumelelayo futhi umnikeze yena kanye nenqubo enhle yempilo, kufanele uzilungiselele ukuqonda futhi wamukele ngesizotha izimo ezintsha, qala ukucinga okungaguquguquki nokuhlelekile kwezixazululo, thola izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokusekelwa othandekayo futhi uzithuthukise ezimweni ezintsha.
Ngiyabonga kakhulu!
OKWENGEZIWE NGOKUQHAWULA
Iphrojekthi ye-DiaChallenge ingukuqanjwa kwamafomethi amabili - okubhalwe phansi nombukiso ongokoqobo. Bekuhanjelwe abantu abayi-9 abanesifo sikashukela sohlobo 1 sikashukela: ngamunye wabo unemigomo yakhe: othile wayefuna ukufunda ukunxephezela isifo sikashukela, othile wayefuna ukululama, abanye baxazulula izinkinga zengqondo.
Ngokuhamba kwezinyanga ezintathu, ochwepheshe abathathu basebenze nababambe iqhaza kulo msebenzi: isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uVasily Golubev, udokotela wezengqondo ongapheli u-Anastasia Pleshcheva kanye nomqeqeshi u-Alexei Shkuratov. Bonke bahlangana kanye ngesonto, futhi ngalesi sikhathi esifushane, ochwepheshe basiza abahlanganyeli ukuba bazitholele ikhawundi lomsebenzi futhi baphendule imibuzo ebaphakamisela yona. Abahlanganyeli bazinqobe futhi bafunda ukuphatha ushukela wabo hhayi ezimweni zokufakelwa zezikhala ezivalekile, kodwa empilweni ejwayelekile.
Umbhali walomsebenzi ngu-Yekaterina Argir, Isekela Lomphathi Omkhulu Wokuqala we-ELTA Company LLC.
"Inkampani yethu iyona kuphela eyakha imishini yaseRussia yamamitha eglue glucose futhi kulo nyaka ineminyaka engu-25 yasungulwa. Iphrojekthi yeDiaChallenge yazalwa ngoba sifuna ukufaka isandla ekuthuthukiseni amanani omphakathi. Sifuna impilo phakathi kwabo okokuqala, futhi Iphrojekthi ye-DiaChallenge imayelana nalokhu. Ngakho-ke, kuzoba wusizo ukuyibuka hhayi kubantu abanesifo sikashukela nabathandekayo babo kuphela, kepha futhi nakubantu abangahlobene nalesi sifo, "kuchaza u-Ekaterina.
Ngaphezu kokuphelezelwa i-endocrinologist, isazi sezengqondo kanye nomqeqeshi wezinyanga ezi-3, abahlanganyeli bephrojekthi bathola amathuluzi wokuziqapha we-Satellite Express izinyanga eziyisithupha kanye nokuhlolwa okuphelele kwezokwelapha ekuqaleni kwephrojekthi nasekuphothulweni kwayo. Ngokwemiphumela yesigaba ngasinye, umuntu obamba iqhaza futhi osebenzayo osezingeni eliphezulu unikezwa ngomklomelo wemali ngenani lama-ruble ayi-100,000.
Iphrojekthi yaqala ngoSepthemba 14: bhalisela Isiteshi se-DiaChallenge kulesi sixhumanisiukuze ungaphuthelwa isiqephu esisodwa. Le filimu iqukethe iziqephu eziyi-14 ezizobekwa kunethiwekhi masonto onke.
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